The Not-So-Common Wedding Photography Moments

August 15, 2024

Wedding photography moments couple walking

If you’re putting together a shot list of wedding photography moments but don’t want to miss those tiny, often-forgotten ones, you’re in the right place!

As a wedding photographer who’s all about the not-so-ordinary shots and capturing every small detail, I’m here to share a few of my wedding photo ideas that often get overlooked and don’t usually make it into portfolios. 

Curious to see what they are? Let’s dive in!

The wedding photography moments that get not enough hype 

You know how when you look at photographers’ portfolios, you always see the same pictures? The getting-ready shots, the first kiss as a married couple, the first dance photo, and so on. 

Wedding photography moments couple walking

And yes, while these big moments definitely can’t be missed in your wedding album, in my opinion, there are so many other smaller, less popular moments that deserve their spot in a wedding album too. Here they go: 

When you arrive at the venue

The first one is when the two of you arrive at the venue, with your photographer waiting to capture your reaction as you see the place for the first time. 

Wedding photography moments venue reveal

All those little details you carefully selected and planned out are finally real and right in front of your eyes. It’s that incredible moment when your vision from months of planning becomes a reality.

You get to see everything untouched and beautifully prepared just for you and your guests! I believe capturing this reaction is a super underrated yet important ‘must-have’ on your wedding photography shot list.

When your guests meet 

Next up is capturing your guests and their emotions when they first see each other in the ceremony room! Many of your guests probably know each other but might not have seen each other in ages. And some might be new and a bit shy… 

This is the time that’s filled with the first hugs, squeals of excitement, blushing cheeks, and lots of beautiful (and fun) emotions between your guests you’ll want to see and remember forever!

And while, yes, this day is about the two of you, documenting these interactions is key to capturing the vibe of your wedding. 

Taking shots of your guests during those first introductions and encounters is an important part of telling the story of your wedding and how the amazing atmosphere started.

When it’s finally official

You’ve just said your “I dos,” walked back down the aisle, and everything happened so quickly! After your recessional, those first few minutes when you’re officially married are pure magic. It’s a moment to pause, let the joy sink in, and realize ~ it’s official.

In my opinion, this is a moment totally worth capturing. It’s one you’ll love looking back on whenever you revisit your wedding album. 

The vibe at ‘cocktail hour’

This is where the long celebration starts! While most photographers use this time for portrait shots (which is totally fine—you need those too!), I think the cocktail hour has a unique vibe that’s worth capturing.

At this point, everyone’s more relaxed, sipping on cocktails, and you finally get to chat with your guests. Everyone will be showering you with compliments—from the venue to your look.

Your guests will still be beautifully dressed, full of energy, and ready to give their fun yet heartwarming speeches. And well, all of this is a great opportunity to capture laughter, tears, and all the feels.

The reception room reveal

This is a moment full of anticipation and excitement! You get to see even more of your wedding vision, hard work and planning come together. 

You’ll want to squeal, do a happy dance, and stroll around in awe, admiring all the little details—the place cards, guest book, centerpieces, decorations, table settings, favors table, champagne glasses, and everything else you so carefully selected.

It’s a few minutes of pure magic. Make sure your photographer is there to capture your reaction to the room, snap a few detail shots of the unique touches that are important to you, and even the exterior of the venue. 

And if you’re feeling it, have a private first dance together before the rest of the party arrives and ask your photographer to take a few shots of that too!

The two of you together before your intros 

Alright, here comes my favorite one! The moment right before the big reveal when all eyes are about to be on you, and you’re about to be introduced as a married couple. 

Bride in white lace dress and groom in tan suit embrace each other as they laugh at their reception

At this instance, you might feel a whirlwind of emotions—excited, shy, joyful, maybe even a little awkward—all at the same time!

Of course, how you feel depends on your personality and the vibe of the day, but I think this is such a fun one to capture. It’s not every day you get to experience so many different emotions at once, right?

Bonus one: The two of you & your last dance 

Here’s an extra romantic twist to wrap up your big day: when the reception winds down and the crowd thins out, sneak away for one last dance, just the two of you, in that now-quiet venue. 

The space that was filled with energy is now all yours—just you, your partner, and the special memories of the day.

This intimate moment is perfect for capturing the raw emotions and connection between you two as the day comes to a close.

Why you should add these moments to your shot list 

So, I know these moments might not be as huge as, say, your first kiss as a married couple, but if you want to relive every single moment of your wedding day and have a wedding album that tells the full story, I highly recommend adding these to your shot list.

They bring a touch of realness and authenticity to your album. A few years down the road, you’ll be able to look back and remember the thrill of seeing your dreamy reception room for the first time. 

Or you’ll laugh at how you blushed before your big intro, heart pounding, but still filled with so much joy. I believe the tiny moments matter just as much as the big ones.

Final thoughts on these wedding photo ideas

And that’s a wrap! I hope these ideas on the often overlooked wedding photography moments sparked some inspiration for making your wedding photos as authentic and unique as YOU.


Read these next: